been comtemplating to post this.or not because
- im no expert
- im noob and hopeless at this. *stares at someone* :P
- i don't have answers to anything
- i just....suck at it.
anyways, this week has been really about this topic. oh well, on and off la.
i drove my mum to a friend's house. apparently she has some last stage of cancer. they were talking about, everything under the sun and suddenly she went like,
" Everyday i have to say 'I'm sorry' and ' Thank you' to my hubby because i feel like i'm a burden to him and the family" then a question was asked,
" would u have done the same thing if it was the other way around?"
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dead silence followed by streaming of tears down her face.
2 things can only answer.
either she would have left him or......she would have done what he's doing for her now.
*in sickness and in health*
another friend, going thru some problems with her other half and suddenly told me..
" Don't marry a guy whom is self-centered and don't bother whatever that's happening. SURE SUFFER WANNN"
i replied,
" Okayy"
MAKE SURE OKAYYY. IF NOT SUFFER ARHHHH
ahhh...yes yes yes. sighhh
a person i know is pretty tall
* reminds me of Peks. (:
anyway, finally met her bf and he's.....a lil taller than her. i was thinking,
" awwwwwwwww poor thing she can't wear heals. no wonder she wore flats today."
and...
my mum went like.
" awwwwwwwwwwww can't wear high heels. "
is this a mother-daughter thing? hahahahahhahaha
anyways, i guess when it comes to love, we
tend to overlook every single weakness in the person. yes? no? i really don't know.
and then when we're in deep shit with the person, we
tend to pin point at every single problem there is with the person. i mean seriously. how can someone tells me this?
"oh if he can't cook for himself, that's his problem. I've bought like noodles, rice, meat, eggs, veg, etc, etc. everything's in the house. if he really didn't cook for himself then im not bothered anyways. don't eat one meal wont die as well. "
whatttt???????????? i was seriously luffing in my heart but i bet she regretted it after blurting everything.
so yeah i also kinda forgot why i intentionally started writting this.
but yeah, just yesterday i was reading what peks posted. real story or not, is still happening in someone's life somewhere. it was a mixed of a series of unfortunate events + P.S. I love you kinda story. go figure that out. hahaha
i guess bottom line...
– DO NOT EVER HOLD ON TO OFFENCES!!! and to cherish who you have and who you are. (:
and no, after writting this, I'm still no expert in it. just some thoughts. (:
Well, if that's love
It comes at much too high a cost